You can call the National Continence Helpline on 1800 330 066 for support. The helpline can also tell you about continence products that are available and where to buy them.
You can get financial help for continence products through the Australian Government Continence Aids Payment Scheme.
The Continence Foundation of Australia has a continence support forum.
Helpful links :
https://www.dss.gov.au/disability-and-carers/carers
https://www.dss.gov.au/sites/default/files/documents/09_2019/more-funding-carer-services.pdf
https://www.carergateway.gov.au/
https://agedcare.health.gov.au/support-services/the-national-aged-care-advocacy-program
https://agedcare.health.gov.au/older-people-their-families-and-carers/incontinence
http://www.bladderbowel.gov.au/
https://www.carergateway.gov.au/respite
https://www.carergateway.gov.au/help-advice
https://www.carergateway.gov.au/help-advice/managing-health-behaviour
https://forum.carergateway.gov.au/s/groups
https://continencevictoria.org.au/news/

ASSISTANCE URGENTLY for carer support from website helpful numbers
If you need to seek assistance in an emergency there are people who can assist you.
Emergency
In an emergency or if someone is in danger
Triple Zero 000
Need to talk?
If you are in crisis, anxious or depressed and want to talk with someone
Lifeline 13 11 14
(for anyone)
Kids Helpline 1800 55 1800
(for people aged 5 to 25)
Emergency respite
Call your local Commonwealth Respite and Carelink Centre if you need emergency respite
1800 052 222
Monday to Friday, 8am to 6pm local time
1800 059 059
After hours
Carer services
Call the Carer Gateway Contact Centre for support and services.
1800 422 737
Monday to Friday, 8am to 6pm local time